The people who we all resent, ridicule or just feel jealous of do not really have it all. They spend so much time keeping up their facade, that they don't have time for anything else. They put so much energy into hiding their true selves that they don't have the stamina to do more than just slap on a band-aid. They don't have time for true relationships so the settle for being mere acquaintances and thinking that it is true friendship. They most certainly don't have time for God. They don't realize or have the time to think about the fact that God is the ultimate helper. He can bring back the joy, the love, the energy that these people have lost and cannot seem to find. God is not a temporary fix!
"And I will ask the Father, and he will give you another advocate to help you and be with you forever..."
Yesterday I asked about what happens to that shattered, scattered vase when no one takes the time to fix them. What are your thoughts?
A better question is, what happens when someone is able to follow that nearly invisible trail of ceramic pieces and gathers them, taking the time to lovingly and carefully put the vase back together again?
The vase, while not necessarily complete but is whole. The vase is put together again, possibly missing some pieces, but created new.
The vase bears the scars from life. There is a certain beauty in the scars. While the scars themselves are may not have physical beauty - I know you think I am ridiculous. "How are these horrendous scars beautiful?! You are nuts!" You are partly right. I can be nuts at times, but bear with me.
While the scars themselves may not be physically beautiful but the meaning of those scars is. Those scars represent survival. They represent an overcoming. No matter what you are going through, the hands that we are dealt leaves its mark on us. Each mark is a scar, no matter the size and depth. These scars are your reminder that you have overcome what life tried to drop you with.
“I have told you these things, so that in me you may have peace. In this world you will have trouble. But take heart! I have overcome the world.”
We are not the only ones with scars. We're not the only ones who have overcome something that probably by all rights should have dropped us. Jesus is the man in the verse who overcame the world. The most amazing thing is, Jesus is just waiting to gather up those pieces and put our broken vases back together again.
Jesus was beaten, insulted, spit on. He was killed on a cross. He had a twisted vine with thorns pushed deep onto his head as a crown.
"They all condemned him as worthy of death. Then some began to spit at him; they blindfolded him, struck him with their fists, and said, “Prophesy!” And the guards took him and beat him."
"...But he had Jesus flogged, and handed him over to be crucified."
"Those who passed by hurled insults at him, shaking their heads... "
"The men who were guarding Jesus began mocking and beating him. 64 They blindfolded him and demanded, “Prophesy! Who hit you?” 65 And they said many other insulting things to him."
"Then Pilate took Jesus and had him flogged. The soldiers twisted together a crown of thorns and put it on his head. They clothed him in a purple robe and went up to him again and again, saying, “Hail, king of the Jews!” And they slapped him in the face."
Jesus was crucified, had nails in his wrists and feet to hold him onto the tall, wooden cross. If you ever doubt that he was seriously tortured, read up on exactly what a crucifixion is. It will knock your socks off to know what Jesus volunteered to suffer for us. He allowed it to happen. Sure, being the Son of God, he could have easily saved himself but he didn't. God loves us so much that he sent his own son, Jesus, to take our place on the cross.
If THAT is not love, I will never know what is.
He is longing to wrap you in his arms, put you back together and comfort you. There are people in your life right now that God has strategically put there to help you. They are just waiting for you to acknowledge them and let them know that you need help.
Our broken pieces cry out to God for help, even if we do not realize it. It usually takes us hitting rock bottom to make us see that we need help. It doesn't have to be this way.
I'm sure that there are many times when you feel so unloved and unlovable, unworthy that you wonder why you are even alive. You are alive because He created you. He loves you so completely that his own son took your place - my place - on that cross. God has never left your side. Whatever you've been through, in the midst of it all, He has been there with you. You were so blinded by your struggles that you missed seeing Him, feeling His presence.
God has always loved you and always will. Nothing will change that. N-O-T-H-I-N-G. He loves you, broken scars and all.
Read John 19 for more of Jesus' crucifixion story. The Bible is filled with stories of broken people, changed by God, used in a variety of ways to do His work. Moses was used by God. Have you heard of him? Moses was inelegant of speech and stuttered. He also rescued the Israelites and brought them out of Egypt. David - King David - the former shepherd who took down a giant - he was an adulterer. Many, many others stories are in the Bible. Did you know that a prostitute rescued God's men from certain death? It's true, but also a completely different post.
If you'd like to know more, let me know! I have a Bible at hand, great ability for researching and reasoning and completely awesome hearing.
God's blessing to you my friends.